Updated and Reviewed by Craig Springer, PhD - Clinical Psychologist (NJ License #4497; NY License #016741; PSYPACT APIT #10118) & Silvina Falcon-Levine, MSW, LCSW - Clinical Social Worker (NJ License #4613; NY License #0922140) Last reviewed: March 9, 2026
Self-Esteem Difficulties Therapy
Short Hills & Morristown, NJ • Telehealth is available across New Jersey, New York, and other PSYPACT-participating states.
Overview
If your inner critic is loud, it likely developed to protect you from mistakes or rejection. Helpful intent—unhelpful impact. We treat the critic like a part that needs retraining, not silencing.
Together we’ll uncover double standards, practice kinder accuracy, and take small values‑guided risks that rebuild trust in yourself. Confidence grows from action—and you won’t be doing it alone at Good Life Center for Mental Health.
Telehealth is available across New Jersey, New York, and other PSYPACT-participating states.
What You May Be Experiencing
Harsh self‑talk and perfectionistic standards
Fear of mistakes, judgment, or visible learning
People‑pleasing, over‑apologizing, or shrinking back
Chronic comparison and feeling ‘behind’
How Therapy Helps
CBT/TEAM: Facts Over Fear
Test the critic’s claims with lived data and run experiments that collect disconfirming evidence.
Compassion‑Focused & Values‑Based Work
Practice self‑respect and take actions aligned with who you want to be—even when doubt shows up.
Skills Training
Assertiveness, boundaries, and receiving feedback without collapse or defensiveness.
Our Approach
Strengths‑based, culturally responsive care
Clear goals and measurable progress markers
Practical exercises that fit your life
Gentle accountability and celebration of growth
Frequently Asked Questions
Is low self‑esteem a diagnosis?
No. It’s a pattern we can change. We’ll target thoughts, behaviors, and environments that maintain it.
Will therapy make me self‑centered?
Healthy self‑respect improves relationships; it’s not selfish—it’s sustainable.
Can you help with imposter feelings?
Yes. We’ll align actions with values and update internal narratives with real data.
How long until I feel more confident?
Confidence grows from repeated action; many notice shifts within a month of consistent practice.
Do you offer telehealth?
Yes—secure video across NJ, NY, and other PSYPACT states.
Next Step
Request a free 15‑minute consultation. Out‑of‑network; superbills and a Good Faith Estimate are available.